Saturday, October 21, 2017

The drama of Socratic Seminar


Reed has had some bumps in his Honors English class as school has gotten underway. He was lucky to get a teacher with an amazing reputation....who delivered her baby three weeks into school and then took 12 weeks off. Yay for her, womp womp for her students.

Evidently a big thing in high school English is this "Socratic Seminar." This is certainly not something I ever did in high school, we had no clue what it was all about. Here's a description:
The Socratic seminar is a formal discussion, based on a text, in which the leader asks open-ended questions. Within the context of the discussion, students listen closely to the comments of others, thinking critically for themselves, and articulate their own thoughts and their responses to the thoughts of others.
In a class with 30 kids, Reed found this task impossibly difficult. The first seminar he didn't talk at all. We consulted with the teacher, and coached him some, and thought he was all set for the second go-round. Nope. Not a word. He said he didn't know when/how to jump in, and also that everyone had already said the things he planned to say. 

The substitute teacher was willing to give him the written assignment (the one a student would get if he/she were absent the day of a seminar) for these two sessions, to make sure the issue was social anxiety, not just that he didn't understand the material. The teacher warned him that the written assignment would be graded harder than the verbal one (that seems pretty unfair, but okay). Reed did very well on both, so the sub knew that it really was just social anxiety keeping him from participating, not a lack of knowledge on the subject. 

So we needed a plan. We met together with Reed, his English sub, and the guidance counselor and they came up with a plan. The sub said that some other kids were having the same struggle, so the other English teachers agreed to do a small group version of the seminar, and eventually work up to participation in the regular classroom version. During this meeting, the sub said Reed was "wicked smart" and did a really good job on the written work. 

The small group version worked well for Reed, and he got an A. Hopefully he will gain some confidence participating in these seminars, since evidently they will happen all the way through high school. Ugh. I feel for him...I also wouldn't feel comfortable participating in these.

There was lots more drama on this, with Reed thinking we were hassling him unnecessarily...but we all soldiered on. I hope it'll continue to work out well.







Friday, October 20, 2017

Amy - a flight danger (LOL)

Amy and Tod were preparing to leave for a quick, long weekend trip to Montana to see Kale's last high school football game, and take in one of Shane's college football games. They were packing up the Jeep, ready to head off to the airport, when Tod said "Okay Amy I know this is a weird question, but do you have any scissors or anything like that in your bags?" And at first she said no, and then she realized she'd packed her whole pencil case, which included a pair of scissors. Out went the scissors. Then he asked "Do you have anything else sharp, like an exacto knife?" And sure enough, yes she had one of those too! TSA would have had fun with her!

Friday, October 13, 2017

Long-haired hippies

The other night at dinner, we were talking about the new Thor movie that's coming out soon. I joked that I wouldn't go see it because Thor had lost all his super-powers when he cut his hair. (I mean seriously, WHY would Chris Hemsworth cut that beautiful hair off?!?) Tod told the kids that I'd inherited it from my Mom to like the boys with long hair. Yep. Guilty. (Well, except for the guy I married!)

I started thinking about that, and realized that Mom would have LOVED Reed's long hair. She is smiling right now as I'm typing this. She probably would have fussed over it so much that it'd really embarrass him (I do my best to avoid that...mostly for fear it'll make him want to cut it all off.) Yep, she's gotta be really happy with his hair situation.

Fun at the corn maze...the long-haired one had more fun
than it looks like in this picture.