Monday, September 5, 2011

On the subject of names...

I may have already written about this in days gone by, but I don't recall.

When we were searching for baby names while we waited for Reed's arrival, it was a daunting task. We knew we wanted to use Jennings for the middle name, since it's my middle name, and was my great-grandfather's middle name as well. As the months went by, we settled on two options for a boy name: Trevor and Reed.

The name Trevor came to mind since Trevor Linden was playing for the Washington Capitals at that time. Handsome fella, nice name. Not knowing anyone named Trevor was also a bonus - I wanted to reduce the chances of him finding another kid with the same name in his classes. A solid name.

The name Reed came to us from my Mom. She'd been on a trip to New York City and had visited the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. With her future grandchild in mind, she looked over the name rolls of all the people who'd come through Ellis Island as they arrived in America. She came to "Reed". When she told me the name idea, she was so excited about it, but honestly the only Reed I knew was a character on the TV show "Sisters" played by Ashley Judd - her name was Reed, which was her mother's maiden name. We quickly realized, hey, Tod's grandmother on his Mom's side was a Reed! Ada Ruby Reed Holt. So after I got over feeling like it was a girl's name (that TV character was probably the only female Reed ever), knowing it was a family name for Tod made it extra special. We figured there wouldn't be any other Reeds around, since we'd never met any ourselves.

As it turns out, we couldn't have picked a more fitting name for Reed. He's tall and skinny, like a reed. He reads like his life depends on it. He's often asked us "How did you know that I would love to read when you picked my name?" and we tell him we had no idea, it just worked out that way. So far it hasn't worked out that he's the only Reed around (there's at least one other Reed in his school), but that's all right. We've got the best Reed in town.

Funny, I don't even recall what girl names we were thinking of!

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Natural disasters and baby names

When we were awaiting Amy's arrival, of course we were thinking of what her name should be. At the top of my list were three names: Amy, Ava and Katrina for the first name, and a 'j' middle name, to match the rest of the family. Just like with Reed, we waited until we saw our new baby girl before we decided what her name would be. Amy seemed like the best choice - it is a simple, yet pretty name, it's timeless, not trendy, and it won't go out of style. I think it is a sturdy name that suits her. Amy is the youngest March sister in the book Little Women....that Amy has blond eyes, curly blond hair, and is artistic. She is rather bratty at first, but grows into a lady. None of that is to say that our Amy is named after Louisa May Alcott's Amy, or that they're anything alike (wink)....that is just the most famous Amy that I know.

And how glad was I that we didn't pick Katrina? While I still love the name, five months after Amy's birth, hurricane Katrina devastated New Orleans, killing so many people and leaving many more homeless. How awful if our baby girl had had that name, forever linked to this national tragedy! So I think we knew what we were doing when we chose 'Amy' as our daughter's name. And Janine went well with Amy, and could allow her to be called A.J. someday if she wanted that.

The one thing I didn't realize about the name Amy, and perhaps it's subliminally why I liked it....Amy is the generic name of about half of the bit part characters on TV shows. Got a person who's just visiting town in your show? Name her Amy. Of course I didn't notice this phenomenon until after our Amy was born, but man it is weird! Amys are everywhere on television!! I'm not sure if it's a good thing or a bad thing, but it's most probably a sign that I watch too much TV. :)

P.S. Don't forget the names that 2 year old Reed had picked out for his new baby sister: Yellow Eyes and Elmo. I get the Elmo part, but I have not a single clue where Yellow Eyes came from.